How to teach your son to be aggressive, extrovert??

ishh actually i tgh geram!! Geram ya amat dgn si Adib nih..
tghari td we went to Christmas fair at his school..

we went around and met some of his friends etc..everything went well until the last bit..
just before we left, i was leyparking with farah n BJ at the foodhall, then my boys were having their chips and drinks..
and after Adib finished the chips, he went around to play with his friend..actually I bought him a giant bubble!! really big..tp die ni degil..suh letak dlm bag tanak..
so tgh die lari2 kejar2 i saw one of the boy was running with the bubble..i thought they're just playing around..suddenly tgk Adib dh tak holding his bubble and they stopped running..

I asked him where's his bubble..die buat muka seposen kate that boy amik..
i was furious, so i went to the find the boy..when i asked, he said it was in the hall..then his mom came to me and asked what's the matter..i told her that his son took Adib's bubble and she started defending saying that was her son's bubble!! cilakak sungguh!!

i went back to the hall looking around with Adib and asked another girl, and she clearly said that boy took it!! wtf!!!!

mase pegi balik tempat the boy and his mom, npk mak die dh rushing nk balik!! i pun kejar sampai kt luar..siap panggil pompuan tuh!!

Me: Excuse me!! I couldn't find the bubble and your son took it from Adib!!
lady: my son didn't stolen it!!

Me: I didn't say he steal it..I said he took it!!
Lady: no! that's his bubble!!
Lady's friend: what's the matter?
me: explained..
lady's friend: dgn nada baik kate maybe it was in the other class..

Lady: dh blah tergopoh gapah (mmg sah la ko curik!!tak gune punye pompuan)

Me: dh bengang, and went back to the hall carik dgn Adib mmg tak jumpe!!

Hisshhh geram betul!! Si Adib pulak, terkulat2 said nothing..mcm redha je brg die kene amik..
i couldn't tahan anymore..i asked him..is he being bullied at school? he said no..

BUt die ni mmg lembut hati sgt!!! tak reti nak melawan..last year mase he's in reception, he keeps telling me bout this boy yg suke kick die..yg die tau nangis and bgtau teacher!!
kitorang puas ckp..kick je budak tu balik!!
But being me, i couldn't sit back je..harap my hubby report kt teacher sama jek die tak ckp pun!! Geram!!
so i wrote a letter complaining kate ade element bully laah etc..mase teacher-parent meeting i complaint lg..sampai teacher terus amik action..lps tu xde dah budak tu buat kt Adib!!

so kesimpulannya hilang la giant bubble adib tuh!! i yg stress giler2 sampai mlm...tunggu hubby balik sbb dah tak tahan nk bgtau..
rase geram sgt cam nk lempang je budak Adib ni supaya die tau nk pertahankan his rights!!
die pulak sbb dh scary tgk mummy mengamuk semacam diam je..xde rupe org hilang brg langsung!!haiiishhhh!!!


tp mmg sah la die ni lembut sgt hati..even kt rumah pun Adam yg byk buat physical kt die..yg die tau nangis and report!!

Kalau Adam jgn harap la die nk bg muka dkt org!!semua org die jerit je and silap2 die pukul!! barulah aggressive mcm mummy!!hehe..

Now me tgh buntu pikir mcmana nk bg Adib ni tough sket and aggressive..not in a negative way but mesti la defend his rights kan???

lg satu die ni ade issuue 'introvert'..dh 2 years christmas show die malu2...last year siap tunduk 90 degrees tanak nyanyi..me ni puas la support die suh nyanyi kuat2..die malu bile ramai parents tgk..
this monday will be his christmas show...dh pesan kt die nyanyi betul2..issshh takdela menurun langsung perangai mummy die yg extrovert ni..
me dulu mase tadika, segala acara mak nenek masuk..siap jadi main character etc..patutla dpt best student for 2 years (5yr and 6 yr)..
bile bab anak, introvert pulak!! Adoi..pening!!

sah2 menurun perangai bapak die yg tersangat lembut hati and malas nk melawan!! tension!!!

sesapa ade advice sgt lah dialu2 kan!! thanks!!!

p/s: mmg la bagus jd gentleman, but tak le sampai brg besar giler org blh curik dpn mate kan!!
Mummy terlebih hormon kot!! ;P